Recovery Reflections: My Conception

Poems

"I have walked through many doors in my search for sobriety and I have learned a lot about my addiction. But it was my grandma who taught me I was a person and not a junkie."

"Where a drunk stumbles, there is where you will find recovery's heart."

"Seeing my Mom die in front of me and the doctors turn off the machines was true powerlessness. Not like the powerlessness I created in my head when I was cutting or using drugs .... For the first time I had to sit with an awful feeling in me and know that no amount of cutting or drugs could take the feelings away or bring my Mom back. I was truly powerless. I now know the difference between true powerlessness and the self created powerlessness from using drugs."

"You don't need tears to cry. My mom yells and uses pills." (9 year old girl)

Sobriety is like going to sleep one night and then waking up in another country that speaks a completely different language. At first it may seem cool, but then the novelty wears off and you realize how much work it will take to fit in....... And the idea of relapse? Well, we always cuss in our native tongue.

"Admitting powerlessness to alcohol is admitting that you got your ass kicked by a bully and nothing more. When it's time to deal with that bully, get yourself a buddy or two to go into that fight." - Sarge

"Denial is simply a word that says the story is still too strong to tell." - J

"It is not the fear of death that motivates change in the alcoholic but rather the eventual realization that they will live, but with no emotional attachment." - Stephen

"Sobriety never takes. When you are at your lowest, reach out and offer someone else a hand." - Sue

"My spiritual journey of recovery began at my first drink." - Dave

"What I learned through my recovery is that sobriety won't make your life better, caring will. What I learned from my family is that enduring pain for someone you care about is the ultimate gift of love." - W

"Limits come from agreements we make with the world about what is possible. Change the agreement and what is possible changes."

"I am not an addict but I love and try to support someone who is. For me addiction means constant heart break. It hurts to the core of my being watching someone I love destroy themselves with little ability to stop them. It's a process of acceptance about the situation. When I photographed the series I was able to exercise non judgemental compassion and acceptance to those I photographed in a way I still have not been able to do in my personal situation. It was a healing process to explore and release the pain and frustration I felt at my situation." Cheers, Claire

"Those that don't understand the power of hope hold on to the idea of miracles. The miracles in recovery are not by chance but because hope found a direction."

"Every decision I make paints a portrait of who I am. Every choice in every moment is a statement to the world about who I am." - Craig,

"Where the heart skips a beat and in between falling tears is a space in time reserved by a guardian angel." - An Old Drunk

Recovery does not avoid responsibility. It challenges you to a higher ideal, a higher belief, a higher dream. It is your potential for something more.

"No matter where you've been and no matter what your past, your life is lived or lost all in the next 30 seconds." - Matt

"I lost my daughter and son to a car crash because of drinking. I often feel my story is too extreme to share so I remain silent during meetings.... My sponsor has told me many times to keep sharing because in reality, the only difference between my story and hers (or anyone elses) is a split second." - P